2010年12月21日星期二

If appropriate get married!

When young, it is easy to be "we're in love" moved slowly, experienced some things, how to love it a bit suspicious deposit. Now, if a couple decide together, I more hope hear their confidence said, we together, really very appropriate.

Not long ago, meet university students. He was with my roommate love dynamic, to nipples, after graduation, but they broke up. Cannotted help but ask break up reason, he'd also calm together, but the truth is not right. Now that he's wife is a clerk, typical mother. Now that he was well-established, she is willing to do supporting her. I really can't imagine, I the roommate, now also established a woman entrepreneur, to which a man, and give up their pursuit.

In love, appreciate the most important, but the marriage trial of compatibility. Two same high quality parts, not a single machine, each other always, in a single machine operation, but often you bit me, I touch you.

A marriage without love is risky, however, if think only love can get married, I'm afraid I have a greater risk. "If you think fit, married?", this is the face of countless mother daughter married when attitude. She didn't say the love, but say the right, not because of "love" the word she said no exports, but experienced a long marriage mothers, values are no longer in love, but a suitable.

DaZhongMa said: "quarrel with damage, it is tempted love means." Each had deep love of person should make clear, when you deep in love with a person, often cannot tolerate insipid. From time to time, create a disturbance, let the mood in the bottom. From the bottom up the struggle for love pain is the best proof.

Love frazzle lover, in most people's minds, inclined unfavorable into marriage, the so-called "love not longevity". Or simply to a love marathon, first break-in to "appropriate", talk about marriage.

So-called suitable, representing a more comfortable state. Probably beautyful under comfortable, they generate habit, grief, and build custom insipid. No three days noisy, two days make, there would be no deep-rooted of love and hate. It is the premise of, two people in character can tolerate, complementary. Don't make sense of love is the most beautiful, make sense of marriage is the most long. Marriage is the most serious wear for love, love, love the sublimation of the establishment of or whether, anyhow is little relationship with love.

Along with the break-in intensifies, love is chose to ignore character is not harmonious will become more and more obvious. Love cultured is "general character", and marriage is exquisite harmonious "difference", only strong points, and can avoid the break-in to examine.

And those that once we desire fairy mop of melancholy, romantic, affectionate person, very cool people, they suits with most women love, but doesn't fit with most women are married. If you are not yoko ono, absolute don't expect can subdue John lennon.

"I think you together inappropriate. When there is close friends so evaluation of your relationship, never laughed it off. Try thinking, where exactly are we not appropriate, can be overcome, still, it is hard to overcome others illusion or fruit has its matter. A woman is, of course, the less rational the happier about life in love more happiness, the problem is, you can talk with who for a lifetime love?

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