The happy life

People see be used to nison month falls, spring and autumn first-generation sequence, Used throughout the year chun xiaqiu winter ShiXiang of changes in temperature. Everything changes, but very ugly light earth kinds of joys and sorrows.there QingQiu orlakers-spurs, harder to will see very sad to wind cing yun pale. Years later, we must change will be happy at ease as a habit.

Every one of us in daily life happy or unhappy, day after 24 hours, why not open happy nature spends every day? Because time for everybody is fair, whether you is what person, also has 24 hours a day, the person wants to live of natural and unrestrained some, must learn to control his own destiny. So will see you how to spend, of course nobody in the face of worry and sad when still can happy smile, because there someone poverty someone riches and honour, this is all causality. The sages said: "misfortune slam shut, only people from recruit; of good and evil news, fast-we accompanying." Someone had lived, someone living bad, it is everyone's blessing quote is different. Common saying says people than popularity dead. So we should learn zhizuchangyue, as the saying goes: "ratio top shortage, ratio descend enough to spare." We should be able to keep optimistic, cheerful, quiet state of mind, is good at ease all pressure, eliminating all trouble. As the saying goes: step back seasky, endure temporary calm. Buddhism also speak: zen heart clean environment, centerless everything wide. Because self-surrender is not the weak, but it is a bosom of mine. So we can in the shortest possible time to adjust their own state of mind. Want to know sad, worry, resentment, sorrow is not a good way to solve the problem.

Therefore we must learn to forgive. According to legend, ancient one old Jackson one night at the ChanYuan walk in ashdod saw corner edges, there is a chair, once he see and then know someone violate compasses walk the temple walls. Old phil Jackson doggo, go to the wall, remove the chair, on the spot and crouchs. Soon, there was a small monk over the wall back, darkness stepping on old Jackson back into the yard. When his feet when on all fours and realised that just tread not chair, but their own master. The young monk suddenly panicked and am tongue-tied. ChuRenYuLiao, master and no harsh voice rebuked him, he only said sheepishly obsessed with calm cold day, quick to wear one more clothes. Confucian speak: topography, the gentleman to kun ". Mean topography submissive, with generous gentleman when the virtue of all things, let load. So people often should embrace generous attitude, can better education reform, man. So we must learn to open happy heart live and unwind one life. To have this attitude gladne remind ourselves that we should be very happy every day, because everybody wants his days have been a bit better, although not from physical satisfy oneself, but learn to make up his mind in emptiness. Everyone has their own inner thoughts, have their own hobbies and interests, as long as oneself are really enjoys doing, you under any circumstances, will feel enriched and steadfast. So the person should have ideal, have ambition, once discovery of things to do in line with their own ideal and ambition, you will lose no time to do it well, try to do more perfect, let oneself satisfactory, also want to let others satisfaction, this is we realize the ideal of the key. For a man's life is limited, energy is limited, never concentrate wrong place, there will be nothing, sorry.

All the splendor in the world is illusory fame and wealth, the volatile, Don't persistent these fame and wealth. True fame is a person's good heart, people say hello, this is the best name: Life relaxed, happy and happy, healthy body, this is the biggest profit. Because the body is your own capital. No body, everything can be done. As the saying goes well, that money doesn't buy happy people; Hong Kong's population head often say, the most important is happy, Beijingers often say, live to joy, So Buddhism also speak, people alive will be put down at ease. These few words appear to look the same, but carefully comprehends but each have meaning. Happy is spiritual, is mental activities. Joy: where to find? But now people seem more lies in the request. No matter to beg, beg, within the happy and happy is the person of a kind of mental state, this kind of psychological state of existence is a kind of social existence. That is, man could not from the society, lonely existence. People thinks, said or done, feel, and even a person known of all virtues are only through social, through the interaction between people, contact and reflected. A person's happiness and well-being, lest thou also will only come from the interaction and contact with others in the relation between person and person and social relationship can taste happiness, feel happy.

Life is a learning process of self-improvement, but there is always understand fully the truth, there are always some intentionally or unintentionally dwayne ran into the heart. Anyhow, the life like dream, life shun less, life is not easy inverse, don't always can not pass with others, let alone with my bread and butter, someone says to watch others not pleasing is oneself accomplishment enough. Think about is also, because everyone's quality by different, birth background, education level, by social effect is different, and in you cannot bear to see others at the same time, whether others also robs you? GuDeYun: "often think see your mistakes, mo talk about others not."

People must learn to meditate, want to know one of life's greatest level is reached in meditation, life's greatest is too confused in meditation solves in. So Buddhism advocate sit-ins, most main is in meditation in meritorious "ring set comet" extinguishing "greed Chen chi", because of ring fixed, because set hair born comet. With wisdom everything understand.

Happy is a consciousness of state, is a kind of tolerance, unruffled mentality: people can live carefree without sorrow, no worries, who stood by, you will comprehend in the world the most beautiful expression is happy smile, so people should have a single optimistic attitude is the most important. I wish beings can "happy life, from comfortable at old".